Why relationships suddenly ends Friends, yesterday went to another conversation about relations between men and women. He shared with me their fears that at some point in the past it has been formed. They are connected with the fact that after some time a relationship where everything seemed to be well, suddenly bored rather, they do not bring the joy that at the beginning, do not want to have to be with a man, I want to end the relationship. As for me, I'll be honest, it is the main reason why I'm still not married. I always feared that the alliance with a man at one moment cease to be I need that I want to leave him.
After talking with a friend, I plunged in thought. Then we sat on the expansion of the sofa for an evening of meditation, and then it hit me!
"I understand!"
Relations tied for the second chakra (svadhisthana) always end that way. Nothing. Once and for all. And the person with whom it was so good becomes a stranger. Even if such a relationship can withstand a considerable period, at least a year (although it should have to rise to Manipur), then lead to the fact that child is born, then begins again threatened with disintegration of the Union, for its part is made.
In any case relations, tied to the lower chakras (Up to Anahata), does not lead to the development and conduct, rather, to the degradation . In this case, partners can not gain spiritual closeness. Even if they talk with each other, it seems like as if speaking in different languages, they just do not come to a common denominator.
Relations at Svadhishthana: admiration for the body, sexuality, setting each other in this plane. Relations in the Manipur: personality assessment of each other, attunement at Ego. At the level of Manipur there respect for your partner, the admiration of his qualities, character, etc. However, the union tied to the lower chakras, a union in which partners are trying to control each other. This is NOT co eration, and NOT SUpruzh ETS.
I can only say that the love for the body to a partner and a special respect to it is very necessary and important. However, a true union, as my friend "when people just can not get bored with each other" - a relationship at the Anahata, heart chakra.
At the level of Anahata chakra begins the true love and understanding partner, the interaction begins at the individual level to Spirit level, when the individual body and do not play the leading role, they seemed to fade into the background.
We often begin to learn that love, when a loved one are not there. Each of us was unhappy love, or unrequited love from a distance. Then we learn to love and accept with humility, learn to be independent from the body, learn to get rid of self-centeredness, that is not to suffer, not to think about themselves, about their needs.
So I sang Viktor Tsoi "love is worth it to wait ". This expectation becomes a kind of energy donation. must be freed from a personal place that later came true for you. And it comes. Like attracts like. You are attracting people with similar aspirations, a man with whom can create a union at the heart chakras. There is an opinion that such people each other out of the ground would get, they just attract a few months or years (as practice shows). Incidentally, when suddenly a man to meet, it does not mean that everything here is happiness! None. Still have to work. Have to drop all the old models behavior and manners of seduction. We should immediately start with the power of purification, preparing a fertile ground for dissolving your love. Person would have Now love is not for something on the level of the lower chakras, and in spite of. Have to be as open as possible, "barefoot and naked." At this level, before the pair appear to more complex problem of unity. In general, then the most important failure of any manifestations of egoism. Love, the feelings should be as clean, if before the pair opened just incredible opportunities and prospects. Oh, and if the test fails, the consequences of breaking such a relationship can be very tragic for the energy plan. Be strong! Believe in each other!
The blog is written before about the different levels of love: personal, impersonal, and supra. So relations at the level of Anahata - is impersonal love and opportunity to reach out to the level of supra. Achieved by such a love of refinement of consciousness, flagrant rejection of the emotional expressions such as irritation, jealousy, sadness, anger, etc. Need to learn to see the divine in your partner, feel the beauty of his soul, and indeed the beauty around, tune in to it.
This morning I reviewed the forestry lecture Vladimir Antonov "Agni Yoga". Here's a quote in theme, which I wrote in my spiritual diary. "The ability for the heart love can not be developed solely to appeals to her. As a psychoenergetic methods of Anahata chakra. Love is the result of complex development not weak souls. And in order to find it necessary to form themselves through the normal earthly deeds and special esoteric practices and, most importantly, with the help of intellectual work by correcting its ethical component ".
Friends, I wish you to gain the heart of love! Only reaching the level of Anahata, it is possible to move on. And a couple of you reinforce energy of each other. For me the ideal example of the relationship has always been Nicholas and Helena Roerich. That's what Helena Roerich wrote: " can not be both higher beauty easy to achieve ... The union of hearts and minds is not accomplished in one life, and even a few lives, namely, Millennium needed to accumulate energy, intertwining ties inseparable ... very, very high can climb the ladder of the Light Spirit, fragmented with soul mate, but the highest level of Cosmic Creativity can be revealed to them only at the Space unity and cooperation with the energy related to him the soul that has reached the same spiritual perfection ... Creativity combined Started in the higher realms of almost limitless ... "
I have long realized that the meaning of women's existence - love a man. Meaning male existence - to take place. No matter what, but at least all at once, but held. In this sense, he needs a woman, as an adjunct and inspiration. Relationship men and women in this case form a wholeness. As Swami Vivekananda wrote: " In a man woman gets father, friend, child. In a woman man becomes a mother, a daughter, Nature, Stars, the universe and the world. "
On it I finish the post and wish all gaining holistic cordial relations with your halves!